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Eid al-Adha & Qurbani Guide for Families: Rituals, Duas, and Involving Children

Written by Tim Baby Mo18 min read

As this is published (28 May 2026 / 12 Dhul Hijjah 1447 H), Muslims in Indonesia are in the second day of Tashriq — two days after Eid al-Adha (Tuesday, 26 May 2026). Qurbani sacrifices continue through 13 Dhul Hijjah (Friday, 29 May).

This guide is for Muslim families: (1) the meaning of Eid al-Adha, (2) the story of Prophet Ibrahim ﷺ to tell children, (3) how to perform the Eid prayer, (4) qurbani conditions and procedure, (5) the Tashriq days, (6) how to involve children, (7) the essential duas.

What is Eid al-Adha

Eid al-Adha is one of two Islamic celebrations (the other being Eid al-Fitr). It falls on 10 Dhul Hijjah — the 10th day of the final month of the Hijri calendar. Also called "Yawm al-Nahr" (the Day of Sacrifice), because on this day Muslims are encouraged to sacrifice an animal — retracing the footsteps of Prophet Ibrahim's ﷺ sacrifice.

In Indonesia, Eid al-Adha 1447 H falls on Tuesday, 26 May 2026. Animal sacrifices may be performed from after the Eid prayer (10 Dhul Hijjah) until before maghrib on 13 Dhul Hijjah (29 May).

The Story of Prophet Ibrahim ﷺ — For Children

There is no Eid al-Adha without this story. Every Muslim child should hear it, ideally every year.

Prophet Ibrahim ﷺ — the beloved of Allah — was old and had long awaited a son. Finally Allah granted him Ismail. When Ismail reached the age where he could walk and help his father, Prophet Ibrahim had a recurring dream — and for a prophet, dreams are revelation — to sacrifice his own son.

What's remarkable about this story isn't the command. It's the response of Ibrahim and Ismail. Ibrahim spoke to his son first. Didn't hide it. Didn't deceive him. He said:

"O my son, I have seen in a dream that I am sacrificing you. So tell me — what do you think?"

Young Ismail replied with words that make any parent's heart tremble:

"O my father, do as you are commanded. You will find me — Allah willing — among the patient." (Qur'an As-Saffat: 102)

They went together to the place of sacrifice. As the knife was about to touch Ismail's neck, Allah replaced Ismail with a great ram from Paradise. The test was passed. The command was never to actually take a child's life — but to test whether Ibrahim and Ismail would surrender what they loved most to Allah.

From this event, the Eid al-Adha qurbani originates.

How to Tell Children (by Age)

See also: How to Tell Prophet Stories to Children.

The Eid al-Adha Prayer

Eid prayer is sunnah muakkadah (strongly recommended), performed in congregation in an open field or mosque on the morning of 10 Dhul Hijjah. Two rakaat. Performed before the khutbah (opposite of Friday prayer).

Quick Procedure

Etiquette Before Going

Qurbani — The Animal Sacrifice

Qurbani is the core ritual of Eid al-Adha. It's sunnah muakkadah for those able (some Hanafi scholars consider it obligatory). One goat or sheep = reward for one person. One cow or buffalo = reward for up to 7 people (group qurbani).

Animal Requirements

Time of Sacrifice

Valid from after the Eid prayer on 10 Dhul Hijjah until before maghrib on 13 Dhul Hijjah. For 1447 H in Indonesia: from Tuesday 26 May morning until Friday 29 May evening.

Sacrifice before the Eid prayer is not valid as qurbani (it becomes regular sadaqah, the Prophet ﷺ said).

Procedure

  1. Face the animal toward the qiblah.
  2. Lay it on its left side, tie its legs except the right hind leg.
  3. The knife must be sharp — the Prophet ﷺ commanded slaughter to be quick so the animal doesn't suffer.
  4. The one slaughtering recites: "Bismillah, Allahu akbar. Allahumma minka wa laka, taqabbal minnii."
  5. Cut with one decisive motion — through windpipe, esophagus, and both jugular veins.
  6. Wait until the animal is fully still before skinning.

Meat Distribution

Qurbani meat is traditionally divided into thirds:

This split is sunnah; other splits are valid as long as nothing is sold. The slaughterer may not sell the meat or skin (except for the benefit of the poor via the committee).

Three Ways to Perform Qurbani in Indonesia 2026

1. Local at Village / Mosque

Most traditional. Buy from a farmer/livestock market, bring to mosque, the committee slaughters and distributes locally.

2. Through Charity Institutions (Online)

Organizations like Dompet Dhuafa, BAZNAS, Rumah Zakat, and many others accept online qurbani. Animals are slaughtered in remote areas or abroad (Palestine, Yemen, Syria) where the meat is most needed.

3. Group Cow Qurbani (1/7)

Seven people share one cow. Each gets 1/7 of the cost. More affordable than buying a goat alone.

Tashriq Days (11–13 Dhul Hijjah)

The three days after Eid al-Adha are called Tashriq days. For Indonesia 1447 H: Wednesday 27 May – Friday 29 May 2026.

Special Rules

How to Involve Children

Eid al-Adha without children's involvement is just a "day off." With involvement, it becomes an emotional memory carried for life.

The Day Before (9 Dhul Hijjah)

Eid Morning

During the Sacrifice

Distributing Meat

Eating Together

Key Duas

1. Eid Takbir

Allahu akbar, Allahu akbar, Allahu akbar. Laa ilaaha illallah, wallahu akbar. Allahu akbar, wa lillahil-hamd.

2. During Sacrifice

Bismillah, Allahu akbar. Allahumma minka wa laka, 'an [name].

3. Eid Greeting

From the Companions: "Taqabbalallahu minnaa wa minkum." ("May Allah accept from us and from you.") — not "Eid Mubarak, mohon maaf lahir batin" which is more associated with Eid al-Fitr.

What to Avoid

Closing

Eid al-Adha is the festival of sacrifice — not just of animals, but of giving up what we love most for Allah. For a child, it's the only festival involving blood and meat and community and a heroic story — a rare combination. Make use of it.

Next year, your child will remember: "Last year Dad/Mom took me to deliver meat to the neighbor." Or: "Last year I held a goat for the first time." Or: "Last year Mom told the story of Prophet Ibrahim before bed and I couldn't sleep thinking about Ismail."

That is Eid al-Adha. Not a day off — a day that shapes identity.

Taqabbalallahu minnaa wa minkum.

Frequently Asked Questions

When is Eid al-Adha 1447 H in Indonesia?+
Eid al-Adha 1447 H in Indonesia falls on Tuesday, 26 May 2026, per the Ministry of Religious Affairs. The Tashriq days (when qurbani may still be sacrificed) run 27–29 May 2026.
Is qurbani obligatory or recommended?+
Most schools (Maliki, Shafi'i, Hanbali) hold qurbani is sunnah muakkadah — strongly recommended for those able, but not sinful to skip. The Hanafi school considers it wajib for those who can afford it. All agree: those who can afford it shouldn't skip — the Prophet ﷺ warned strongly against this.
What are the requirements for a valid qurbani animal?+
The animal must be: (1) of an allowed type — goat, sheep, cow, buffalo, or camel (chicken not valid); (2) of minimum age — goat ≥1 year, sheep ≥6 months with replaced teeth, cow/buffalo ≥2 years, camel ≥5 years; (3) fully healthy with no defects affecting meat — not blind, not severely lame, not emaciated; (4) intact body parts.
How much does qurbani cost for goat and cow in 2026?+
Goat in Indonesia 2026: IDR 3.5–6M (local) or IDR 2.4–3M (overseas programs via charities). Group cow 1/7 share: IDR 4–7M per person. Prices vary by region, animal weight, and distribution route. Remote or overseas programs are cheaper due to lower local livestock prices.
Until when is qurbani sacrifice valid?+
Qurbani slaughter is valid from after the Eid prayer on 10 Dhul Hijjah until before maghrib on 13 Dhul Hijjah. For Indonesia 1447 H: from Tuesday 26 May morning (after Eid prayer) until Friday 29 May before maghrib. Slaughter before the Eid prayer is not valid as qurbani — it counts only as ordinary sadaqah.
Can qurbani be intended on behalf of a deceased person?+
Scholars differ. Hanafi and Hanbali: valid, reward reaches the deceased. Maliki and Shafi'i: not valid unless the deceased explicitly willed it. Most contemporary scholars permit it on the condition that one's own qurbani is prioritized first, then qurbani for the deceased as an additional act.
What's the difference between qurbani and aqiqah?+
Qurbani is performed every Eid al-Adha by able adult Muslims — following the example of Prophet Ibrahim. Aqiqah is performed for a newborn (ideally on day 7) — as gratitude for the birth. Aqiqah: 2 goats for a boy, 1 for a girl. Aqiqah meat is cooked first, then distributed; qurbani meat may be distributed raw. Aqiqah ruling: sunnah muakkadah for parents.
What's the ruling on cutting hair and nails before qurbani?+
For those intending qurbani, it's recommended not to cut hair, nails, or skin from 1 Dhul Hijjah until after the sacrifice (Muslim). This is sunnah, not obligatory — if you've already cut, the qurbani is still valid. The wisdom: resembling the pilgrims in ihram, and adding distinction to the qurbani moment.